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Reclaim Your Confidence.
Lead Your Marriage.
Reconnect with Your Wife.
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Dates: Thursday, September 24 (7:00 PM) – Saturday, September 26 (6:00 PM)
Location: Hyatt Place – Lehi, Utah
Investment: $197 (Financial Aid & Payment Plans Available)
You give your best to your family, but when your marriage feels stuck, the usual tactics don't work.
You give your best to your family, but when your marriage feels stuck, the usual tactics don't work.
Most men care deeply about their wives and work incredibly hard to build a good life. But when miscommunication, tension, or distance creeps into a marriage, traditional approaches stop working.
You’re putting massive effort into keeping the peace, but the same old patterns keep repeating.
You’re trying to making adjustments and do what she asks, yet you still feel under-appreciated, misunderstood, or disconnected.
You’re tired of managing tension instead of building genuine, passionate connection.
Here is the truth: Managing conflict from a place of defense never builds closeness. When you are constantly reacting or trying to prevent the next breakdown, you lose your grounded, authentic self. Neither backing down nor forcing your way works.
You need a 3rd Option—a strategy rooted in emotional strength, builds true self-regard, and unwavering confidence that leads your marriage into emotionally safety and true connection.
The Breakthroughs You Will Work Toward
The Breakthroughs You Will Work Toward
This retreat provides a safe, confidential, high-impact, and non-judgmental environment where you can step away from daily stressors, recharge, and gain practical tools.
Rather than quick fixes and trite advice, you will be equipped with actionable steps to help you make real progress.
You will learn how to:
Stay Grounded Under Pressure: Keep your composure, clarity, and focus when conversations get heated, shifting from reactive defense to calm presence.
Improve Untriggered Listening: Learn to translate negative comments into pure underlying desires so you can offer her genuine compassion and safety.
Own Your Realm of Power: Rebuild unshakeable internal self-regard so your authentic confidence isn't dependent on your partner's mood or approval
Recharge & Connect: Experience a balance of deep transformational workshops, meaningful breaks, and genuine fellowship with other men working on the same goals.
Build Real Connection: Step back into your home as a husband who creates more of an atmosphere of safety, trust, and mutual respect.
"This is a retreat wives love to send their husbands to—and a space where husbands love to go to recharge, recenter, and shift into a healthy mentality."
What We Will Cover: The Breakthrough Path
What We Will Cover: The Breakthrough Path
We balance deep inner work with practical tools to help you experience meaningful emotional breakthroughs:
Phase 1: Foundation & Safety
Work through personal insecurities, establish healthy emotional boundaries, and address urgent physiological and soul needs to step out of fight-or-flight mode.Phase 2: Connection & Compassion
De-escalate tension surrounding affection, intimacy, and high-stakes expectations. Master the skill of understanding your partner without sacrificing your own integrity.Phase 3: Integration & Strategic Execution
Own your sphere of influence, dismantle unhelpful beliefs, and construct a practical roadmap for the future of your marriage.
Schedule & Rejuvenation Balance
Schedule & Rejuvenation Balance
We know men need focused work combined with room to process. The weekend is structured to deliver deep learning with real breathing room:
Thursday, Sept 24 (7:00 PM – 9:00 PM): Orientation, foundational principles, setting a confidential environment, and mapping core relationship challenges.
Friday, Sept 25 (9:00 AM – 9:00 PM): Deep dive into Phase 1 & 2 tools, physiological/emotional capacity work, and interactive sessions, with 2-hour extended breaks for lunch (12-2) and dinner (5:30-7:30).
Saturday, Sept 26 (9:00 AM – 6:00 PM): Phase 3 integration, live skill-building, closing wrap-up, and next steps, with a 2-hour extended break for lunch (12-2).
(Note: Attendance and participation at each session is voluntary.)
Accommodations & Meals
Accommodations & Meals
Lodging is Not Included: Your retreat ticket covers access to all retreat sessions and workshop materials at the Hyatt Place Lehi venue. Attendees arrange overnight stays independently (hotel room, Airbnb, or staying at home if local).
Room-Sharing Coordination: A shared coordination spreadsheet is provided to registered attendees who want to split lodging costs with another participant.
Meals & Refreshments: We want you focused and energized throughout the retreat! Water stations will be provided inside the meeting room throughout the event. For meals and snacks, you have several flexible options:
Add-on Lunch & Snacks Package: Purchase this add-on with your ticket for seamless, hassle-free dining delivered straight to the event breaks.
Personal Snacks & Lunches: You are welcome to bring personal snacks, lunch boxes, or refillable water bottles directly into the meeting room.
Local Restaurants: Hyatt Place Lehi is right next to dozens of lunch spots within a 2- to 5-minute drive.
DoorDash / Delivery: You can easily order food delivery directly to the hotel!
Note on Venue Policy: Outside restaurant and DoorDash meals cannot be eaten inside the event room (to comply with hotel catering policies). You are welcome to eat delivery or takeout in the hotel lobby lounge, outdoor seating areas, or a guest room. (This restriction does not apply to the official add-on meal package).
Generous Breaks: Two-hour lunch and dinner breaks are intentionally spacious, giving you time to connect and build camaraderie with other men, or step away to decompress and process what you're learning. Short refreshment breaks are also built in throughout the day.
How to Join
How to Join
We want this retreat to be reachable for every husband who is committed to transforming his marriage.
Step 1: Complete Registration Form
Step 1: Complete Registration Form
Fill out the brief attendee survey to help us customize the experience to your needs.
Step 2: Choose Your Ticket Option
Step 2: Choose Your Ticket Option
Choice A: Standard Ticket ($197): Covers full in-person access to all retreat sessions at Hyatt Place Lehi.
Choice B: Financial Aid / Custom Pricing: We offer financial aid options so that cost is never a barrier to healing your marriage.
Optional Add-ons: Add catered lunches and snacks on-site.
Bring a Friend Rebate ($30)
Bring a Friend Rebate ($30)
Bring a friend or brother! Receive a $30 rebate for yourself and $30 for every friend you invite who gets a ticket.
This will show up as a partial refund of your ticket sale after the event and is based on the registration form of each person.
Note: Rebates are not provided for tickets purchased using financial aid, and are limited to the price of the ticket.
Our 100% Experience Guarantee
Our 100% Experience Guarantee
Test the Framework Risk-Free
Attend the sessions through Friday evening. If you honestly feel you haven't received valuable, actionable tools to strengthen your marriage dynamic, notify me before Saturday morning for a 100% refund — no hard feelings.
Frequently Asked Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
Who is this retreat for?
This retreat is designed for men in marriages or committed relationships who want practical, actionable tools to build trust, deepen intimacy, eliminate friction, and lead with clarity and confidence. Whether you are navigating a rough patch or want to take a good relationship to the next level, this space is built for you.
What can I expect, and will I have to share personal struggles in front of the group?
This is a practical, framework-driven workshop—not an uncomfortable therapy circle or an endless venting session. You will receive direct teaching, actionable tools, and personal exercise time. Sharing is completely optional and strictly confidential. You can submit questions or struggles anonymously before or during the event, and you only participate in group discussions at the level you are comfortable with.
Is lodging included in the ticket price?
No. The ticket covers admission to the retreat venue and workshop sessions. Attendees manage their own hotel, Airbnb, or home lodging. A room-sharing coordination spreadsheet is sent after registration.
Are meals included?
Meals are on your own during 2-hour extended breaks. Catered lunches and snacks can be added during ticket purchase.
Is there an online or recorded option?
No. This is an exclusively in-person retreat to ensure maximum privacy, connection, and focus. Participant interactions will never be recorded or published.
What if I can't afford the $197 ticket?
Please fill out our Financial Aid Application. We review applications promptly and offer custom pricing to ensure cost doesn't keep you from attending.
What should I wear or bring with me?
Casual, comfortable clothing is ideal. Notebooks and pens are provided, but you can also bring your own. Mostly bring an open mindset. All slides and diagrams will be shared with you after the retreat.
Can my wife attend with me?
The Husband Reset Retreat is an all-men's environment designed specifically for husbands to work through challenges, build skills, and support one another alongside fellow men. (If you are interested in joint couples coaching or trainings, check out our Coaching page and Video Courses).
Ready to Reset Your Marriage Dynamic?
Ready to Reset Your Marriage Dynamic?
This is nothing compared to the impact this will have on your life, and the life of your loved ones.
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What are people saying about what Eric teaches?
"Eric is an excellent life coach!...Since I began,...I have stopped my negative self-talk because my false beliefs have changed so my brain doesn’t even think those judging thoughts about myself anymore! I’m also less judgmental of others. I’m finding greater joy as I’m able to live from my desires. I am becoming more in tune with myself so I can choose what I desire to do and the perfect time to do it. I’ve also been able to eliminate some fears I have had and feel greater safety in Christ. I highly recommend Eric as a life coach!"
- D. Fredrickson
"I am delighted to have recently become acquainted with Eric and his 'magic tools.'
"For the past 30 years, I have been a student of many experts and mentors in the field of self-development. They all offered a plethora of useful information that has really enchanted my life, but Eric’s 'TOOLS' are by far the most helpful method I have ever found that has REALLY TAUGHT ME HOW to explore my own negative, self-limiting thoughts."
- J. Mathie
Your marriage doesn't have to feel like an uphill battle. Reclaim your confidence, bring peace back into your home, and build a lasting connection with your wife. Register now!
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About Eric:
Since becoming a life coach in 2017, he has helped a wide spectrum of people to effectively work through and let go of difficult feelings and negative thoughts and find greater fulfillment and connection. He life coaches anyone who feels anxious, rejected, discouraged, frustrated, unfulfilled, without purpose, or feels that they are just not good enough. He has shared some of the insights he’s gained on ericpabstlifecoach.com and finds great fulfillment in helping others progress.
He knows how to approach stress in a highly effective way, making the most of it, without it taking him down. He passionately wants to change the world by reducing the suffering he sees everywhere he goes.
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